What subtle behavior makes a person more attractive?

1. Passion. You could be passionate about dentistry or teaching first graders. If you get fired up when you talk about it, it’s attractive.
2. Being genuine. I like it when people are completely themselves. It’s nice when people are just really comfortable with who they are no matter how weird or unconventional it may be.
3. Positivity. Some people make you feel good just being around them. They’re so positive about life and everything else, that you can’t help but want to be with them all the time. It’s so attractive.
4. Arguing thoughtfully. Many people get angry in arguments and are so strong in their opinion that they won’t listen to the other's thoughts. It’s really refreshing when someone will actually listen to your points and consider them when you have a disagreement. It shows a lot of intelligence and maturity.
5. Being interesting. The majority of people go to work during the week and go to the bars or stay home on the weekends. People who have interesting hobbies or spend their time productively are very attractive. People who try new things often are extremely attractive to me.
6. Drive. A person who continuously sets goals and reaches them is attractive.
7. Kindness. Anyone who reacts kindly no matter the circumstances is infinitely attractive. The world is harsh and those who exude kindness make life a lot brighter. Kindness takes a lot of emotional endurance to have continuously.
8. Honesty. Most people tell small lies to save the feelings of others which is taking the easy way out. I think this attitude hurts both parties. I think people who are completely honest have a lot of emotional strength. It’s very attractive to never have to guess what someone is thinking or if they’re telling you the whole truth.
9. Listening. It means you care about others and what other people are saying. It shows you’re not self-centred and you value the opinions of others.
10. Confidence. It’s attractive when a person knows they’re a catch. It means they value themselves and it makes me feel I’ve lucked out in getting to know them.
11. Being humble. With confidence, you know you’re great, but you must also realize there’s always room for improvement. There’s always someone better than you and there’s always someone you can learn from.
12. Goodwill. People who want happiness and good fortune for others are infinitely attractive. It means their motives are not selfish in knowing you. It means they want the best for you no matter how it affects them. It’s a rare and very attractive quality.